Don't underestimate the power of a juicy, high vibe, solid, complementary, and soulful friendship.
There's so much emphasis placed on romantic relationships and don't get me wrong they are beautiful but the warmth that a solid friendship can provide is just as powerful.
My friends mean the absolute world to me. I love them so much. Not just because they're dope individuals ,but because in a unpredictable, noisy, world they make my life more worthwhile, exciting, and serene.
I feel their love when we're together and both of our faces light up. I feel their love through the tone of their voice while we're on the phone. I feel their consistent love during some of our most vulnerable and practical conversations. I feel their love through the laughs we share.
I love how I can talk to them about deep stuff but nothing at the same time. My 2 close girlfriends we can go so deep and then start drifting off into our own worlds on the phone and then come back to each other like we didn't just drift.
A good friend is there for you in your time of need. My friends have provided a feeling of safety that I can't even explain. Helped me break down problems, been supportive of my most scariest ventures, and have also loved me when things weren't so great.
This wasn't always the case for me. I used to have relationships that made me feel cornered and lost. Once I did the work within and let go of things and people that weren't serving me I have never felt so alive. My relationships are now a reflection of this.
Side note: I know I'm not the only one who has experienced chaotic friendships. I know some of you maybe on guard right now and not open to making new friends because of the past. I'm not invalidating your experiences.
As women I do want to encourage you to be careful about how you talk about your own kind because men are listening. Tony Gaskins taught me this.
If you're on guard right now, I encourage you to be open to the possibility of not just a beautiful harmonious love life coming your way but also an amazing friendship.
Because during some of my most hardest times it was my friends who made my world feel more at ease.
I love yall!!!!
How is the quality of your relationships? Is your circle filled with people you don't trust? Have you been hurt by someone you thought was a true friend? Do you find yourself dealing with toxic friendship cycles back to back?
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I'm not crying you are 😠this is so sweet and my heart is full! The world's focus does seem to always center romantic relationships...while those are important, they are not the only type of relationship that exists. Platonic relationships are just as important. You have helped walk me through some of the most difficult times of my life, you've helped celebrate some of my best days, and you inspire me daily.