This world is known to treat you how you look.
What's funny is that I did this same thing to myself.
Growing up I didn't feel the way that I feel now. I didn't feel beautiful, powerful, and inspired. I I felt confused, lonely, and depressed. I had a low self-esteem. The world treated me according to beauty standards.
You see, I let my flaws dictate my direction in life. I let my flaws hold me back from experiencing good love. I had this belief that "there's no way someone can love me genuinely for me" because of these flaws.
You know what this attracted? Toxic relationships!
I put up with mistreatment not only because I was a people pleaser seeking external validation to feel whole, but because I didn't feel beautiful or good enough.
And since i'm not beautiful or good enough I deserve to be mistreated right?
Did I just hit a button?
I can honestly admit that once confronted, all of my insecurities unlocked so much pain, courage, wisdom, and power inside of me.
They were there to get my attention and guess what?
Once I faced them, they became the seasonings to a phenomenal dish called "Hoppin' With Hago."
Had I kept holding myself back you wouldn't be seeing this post right now.
Are you tolerating mistreatment or stuck in toxic dating cycles because you don't like the way you look? Maybe you felt like you were too skinny, too big, you grew up with a disfigurement, or maybe you had a speech problem, maybe you have acne.
Guess what?
I have a solution to your problem! My complimentary 30 Minute Hoppin' call.
During this call we will:
Figure out 1 habit that's keeping you stuck and how to break out of it
Get more clear on why you keep attracting toxic relationships and create a mini game plan to stop
Help you understand yourself on a deeper level and learn to love yourself more.
Here's the link! https://calendly.com/hoppinwithhago/30min
My goal is to help you with this #1 problem which is back to back toxic dating/friendship cycles and get you to the solution, which is you, so you can love yourself on an unexplainable level and have relationships that prove this!
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