I'd never forget when I was watching a video by Tony Gaskins and he said "when we know better and don't do better, our consequence is greater."
The first thing that came to my mind was how in the past I knew certain things, people, or experiences were no good for me, but still went after them anyway.
I was taking jobs that I knew weren't in alignment with my gifts and abilities. I was entering friendships even though I knew something was "off" about the person. I was holding onto someone for dear life when every sign in the Universe was telling me to let go.
I would beat myself up and end up feeling bamboozled in the end because I knew better but I still did the opposite of what I knew.
Ever noticed someone who is causing a lot of chaos but seems to get away with it? Tony Gaskins says it maybe because they don't know any better. Ever tried to tag along with what these people were doing even though you KNEW it wasn't right and got caught?
The expectation is, once you know you're expected to move in accordance with that knowing. Once you've incorporated new knowledge you are consciously raised to a new plateau. Whether your subconscious mind is on board or not, your consequence may still be greater because YOU KNOW.
I went from a place of knowing better and doing the opposite to knowing better and feeling OBLIGATED to do better. I HAVE to do better because I was already in that place of going against my intuition.
You know what the only result was? Shame. Regret. Fear. Disaster.
Could it be that one of the reasons you're attracting toxic relationships into your life is because you keep going against what you know to do?
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1. Figure out 1 habit that's keeping you stuck and how to break out of it
2. Get more clear on why you keep attracting toxic relationships and create a mini game plan to stop
3. Help you understand yourself on a deeper level and learn to love yourself more.
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My goal is to help you with this #1 problem which is back to back toxic dating/friendship cycles and get you to the solution, which is you, so you can love yourself on an unexplainable level and have relationships that prove this!